<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"><channel><title>Relationship on</title><link>https://geekyschmidt.com/tags/relationship/</link><description>Recent content in Relationship on</description><image><title/><url>https://geekyschmidt.com/images/papermod-cover.png</url><link>https://geekyschmidt.com/images/papermod-cover.png</link></image><generator>Hugo</generator><language>en</language><copyright>Copyright ©2002-2026, Nicholas Schmidt; all rights reserved.</copyright><lastBuildDate>Fri, 21 Dec 2007 23:22:09 +0000</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://geekyschmidt.com/tags/relationship/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>What I need Recap 2</title><link>https://geekyschmidt.com/2007/12/21/what-i-need-recap-2/</link><pubDate>Fri, 21 Dec 2007 23:22:09 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://geekyschmidt.com/2007/12/21/what-i-need-recap-2/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="color: #0000ee" class="Apple-style-span"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i2.wp.com/geekyschmidt.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/12/needs.jpg?w=700" style="text-decoration: underline" align="left" vspace="10" hspace="10" border="0" alt="needs.jpg" data-recalc-dims="1" /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #000000"&gt;In a fight recently, I wrote down a list of needs. The boat had done sailed by time these were written down but I left them on my fridge (along with what Nick did bad mind you) to remind myself. Then again I said this &lt;a href="http://geekyschmidt.com/2006/02/20/what-i-need/" target="_blank"&gt;3 years ago too&lt;/a&gt;. Who knows but I wanted to post them and have this to search back for also.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;Together – We do things together, we hold the same line together, we exist together&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Communication – Can you hear me now?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Less Cursing – Yarr Matey I don’t be wantin to date a sailor Yarrr&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;On-Time – Cell Phones, Google Calendar, Watches, no reason to be late for stuff&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Clean Home – Sexist and old school? Nope! This is how I feel loved&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Push me to Christ – Last thing I need in my spiritual walk is a boat anchor, sometimes you can’t help but       carry but other times I need a swift kick in the butt&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Stop Caring for the World – Who gives 2 craps and a cookie what so-and-so down the road thinks?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Be here when I get home – Nothing worse than traveling for 2 weeks and someone not be home when you pull up&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Respect “Our” Decisions – There is a good chance I didn’t want to do something, but it is OUR Decision.       “Hold the line!” as they say in battle&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Plan with me – If you want to be with me, be with me. That means telling your team what the plan is&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Share the good/bad – I don’t live in a fairy tale, neither should you. Life sucks sometimes but let me be there with you when it does&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Tell me about your feelings despite my load – Yep, I am a busy guy and have a lot on my plate. That doesn’t   mean hiding it from me. My one escape is the “us” stuff and I live to be a superman&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Catholic Family – My family will attend mass and love the sacraments. All of us, all of the time&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Stay at Home Wife – Oh geez another being sexist! Nope! Our kids deserve the best the world can offer and the best is their Mom. The greatest job is a Mom.&lt;/li&gt;
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